We all know that words have power: the right ones can lift your spirits, but when they are degrading or insulting they can leave deep psychological scars, even during consensual play. Words can also be tremendously arousing. So what can you say during humiliation play? And what should be left unsaid? Here are some tips on how to walk the line.
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Well, it entirely depends on how the act is carried out and who it's carried out on. However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome. It should never damage a sub's headspace , make them feel unsafe, or trigger them to past traumas. Punishments should be clear and consistent. Places like sex clubs, BDSM gatherings, a private gathering of kinky friends, kink festivals, private property no trespassing etc. Because strangers walking down the street — vanilla or otherwise — are not able or might not want to consent to seeing it.