Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Like falling in love or meeting your soulmate, people say you'll "just know" when you're having an orgasm. That's a lovely sentiment, and might be true for some people, but sometimes you might actually not know.
We all know orgasms shouldn't be seen as the end goal of sex. Plus, sex can be fun and pleasurable even when you don't come. And, there are many women and people with vaginas who don't orgasm for many reasons.