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Curious about the consensual, erotic power play of BDSM, but don't feel ready to invest in a full-scale dungeon just yet? We have good news: You can add BDSM moves to your partnered sex life without spending a mint on new accessories or mastering dozens of different rope ties. And while investing in kink gear and sex toys can be fun, this kind of play is ultimately about you, your partner or partners, and consensual power exchange, not capitalism. Likewise, various household items such as rope and clothespins can be used in scenes, and they hardly cost anything at all. From safely restraining your partner to experimenting with role-play, here are eight ways you can explore BDSM with your partner tonight.

In fact, the movie made the move so popular sales of the spreader bar sex toy sold out after Fifty Shades Darker hit cinemas and viewers witnessed that erotic scene between Christian and Ana. But why is bondage so alluring? Play-struggling against restraints can build an exciting adrenaline rush, while being blindfolded heightens the senses in the rest of the body. But how do you introduce something that conjures up images of leather fetish gear, gimp masks and twisted rope, into a bedroom that rarely hosts anything riskier than Reverse Cowgirl? So new Tinder dates are out.

Bondage is an amazing way to tap into the psychological aspects of sex—the stuff that makes sex sexy instead of just body parts rubbing each other. Tying someone up or allowing yourself to be bound, is about trust, uncertainty, submission, creativity, communication, control and, surrender. It can take your relationship and your sex life to the next level.

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