One thing that even a cursory research will show you, is that the internet is full of ignorance, bad advice and outright negative propaganda with regards to anal sex. Some people appear to have an agenda which requires spreading and perpetuating old wives tales, presumably so that other people fall in line and behave just as they do. My husband wants us to have anal sex more often. He likes it and claims that most couples are really into it.
The problem: My husband wants us to have anal sex more often
My partner wants to try anal sex, does it hurt and is it safe? | The Independent
If I had a nickel for the number of times someone has approached me on the street, grabbed me by the shoulders, and shouted, "FRANK! Primarily because people don't ever recognize me on the street, and also because that's a strange question to lead with. But the point still stands that there's a male obsession with the butt hole that women, especially women who aren't into anal stimulation, don't understand. Here's why guys are so into it.