One thing my wife started doing when we were trying to improve our sex life was to start to go to bed naked. Of course, this assumes that you are already going to bed at the same time. Just a note: Since my wife has started writing as well, I thought it might be fun to get her input on this one as well. One reason this yields a higher frequency of sex, I believe, is that there are fewer barriers. One thing they teach you in sales is to remove any obstacles from buying your product or service. Well, clothes on is an obstacle.
When it comes to sex tips for married couples , a few simple, sexy tricks can light a fire under your sex life. Sometimes a little bit of enthusiasm and maybe a surprise here or there can go a long way. Sexting is a good precursor to the main event: the sex that is coming later. The great thing about sexting is that you can say whatever you want without fear of an awkward silence. You can be more adventurous and just go for it. Send a sext so hot it burns your lips to write it.
The problems mainly stem from the intimate side of our relationship. When we were first married we both slept naked, but as time wore on, she decided to wear underwear in bed while I still sleep undressed. I feel insulted and less intimate towards her because of it. She just lies there with no participation, waiting for me to get it over with. I have to admit that I had an affair 10 years ago.